If this is your side, you are typically ready to leave the relationship and are already focused on this decision. The person doing the unloading needs to understand how and when they will do it, whether over the phone or in person. Once you've made these decisions, you'll need to talk to the other person. Make sure you have time because the other person may want to talk and try to work things out. You have to be strong, because the other person will try to win you back. Don't give up because you feel bad for them, instead remember the reasons why you no longer want to be together, whether it's how they treated you, cheated on you, lied to you, or that's just not the case. one per