I must clarify that one of the biggest problems I have at this age is the time I go out alone without my family. When I was younger my family let me go out more, this is because now that I have become a teenager the dangers and damage have increased. My parents have now become hard to persuade because of all the things they hear from other people and society, so this has a negative effect because they start to follow their advice. They let me out, but if there is a delay they start freaking out and yelling and screaming. After we moved from Lebanon to Syria, things started to look rosy, but then a lot of things changed and the problems started to become clear. This is for many reasons that I consider unreasonable and unfair. First of all, it's true that they let me go out with my friends in a certain place at a certain time. This is because they don't like me going out on the street around 9, they think it's too late, except for parties and internal events. They generally don't allow me to go out alone on the street at that time because of people who might harm me. They have the right to do so, and it is true that many deaths and other accidents have occurred throughout the world. On the other hand, what I find most exaggerated is the fact that they don't understand that I am a mature and responsible adult who knows what is right and what is wrong in life. They still think I'm the little girl who doesn't know any of the dangers of the world, when deep down I do. When I go out with friends, it's usually in the afternoon and that's when they let me, but if I'm late for an hour, then there's a hurricane in those hours because of that and a stupid fact that... .. half paper...... I have never done anything wrong and annoying in my life and they trust me so much. But they are still afraid of me and want me to always be with them, I always tell them that they should let go and stop holding on because there will be a day when I will have to take my responsibilities and that's when I will do it. I will have to do everything myself and they won't be there for me. Obviously, for me to develop a life philosophy from an early age, like doing everything myself, will help me throughout my life because at that point I won't need my parents alone anymore and that's what I think is right. The only thought they should be is to let me go and see the results because I would never disappoint and they know it, they just have to have the courage to let me do what I want, which is to let myself go. And, of course, they should take responsibility for what they then learn.
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